March Monthly Missions Focus - The Nelsons
Missions is not the ultimate goal of the church. Worship is. Missions exists because worship doesn’t. Worship is ultimate, not missions, because God is ultimate, not man. … [Missions] is a temporary necessity. But worship abides forever.
-John Piper, Let The Nations Be Glad!
Revelation 7:9-10 gives us a vision of every tribe, tongue, people, and nation standing blameless before God and praising Him. This is the ultimate goal of the church. We want to make disciples who will one day be among that throng, rejoicing in God’s presence for eternity. As the body of Christ (1 Cor 12:27-30), we each have a part to play in reaching that goal. Some will minister here while praying for and giving to those who are serving around the world. Others will be sent out to go and make disciples of every tribe, tongue, people, and nation.
Jeff and Jacqulyn Nelson, Missionaries to Uruguay
Worship, therefore, is the fuel and the goal in missions. It’s the goal of missions because in missions we simply aim to bring the nations into the white-hot enjoyment of God’s glory.
But worship is also the fuel of missions. Passion for God in worship preceded the offer of God in preaching. You can’t commend what you don’t cherish.
-John Piper, Let The Nations Be Glad!
Last month we highlighted the work of Amy Brock-Devine, who went out from Bethel to Thailand. This month, we want you to meet another couple who has been sent out from Bethel in the last two years. Jeff and Jacqulyn are not afraid to “dream big after 40” – they are making the second half of their lives count for Christ! They are able to commend God to those they serve because they truly cherish Him. Here is their story in their own words:
Our work in Uruguay
After raising our financial and prayer support, going through mission and Bible training, and spending this last year learning Spanish, we are thrilled to finally be in Uruguay!
During our first year here, we’re focusing on developing solid relationships, learning the culture and sharpening our language skills in the castellano dialect of Spanish. We’re presently working in a Baptist Church of about 40 people (including children). Our long-term goal is to assist the Uruguayan church to plant new churches. We also desire to develop an inter-denominational discipleship ministry. We want to nurture and equip the body of Christ in Uruguay, so that they may really know the One True and Living God.
The churches here are young, and are attended mostly by first-generation believers, many of whom have believed a gospel that is completely focused on outward works. Discipleship is almost non-existent. Because of this, most believers do not have a solid foundation in the Scriptures, nor an understanding of how God wants to personally transform each of them into the image of His Son. Few are obedient to the Word of God and few are living transformed lives.
As part of our first year’s work, we’ll complete an “On Target” project for our mission agency (United World Mission). The objective of this is to observe behavior, learn what Uruguayans value (what is good or best), and at the deepest level, what they believe to be true (their worldview). In November, we rented a car and traveled to the capital cities of each of the 19 departments (states) in Uruguay, to meet the people and learn from them. As many of them shared their beliefs about God and life in general, we could really see the effects of 90+ years of atheism. Most of them tend to have very fatalistic views, and trust absolutely no one.
One of the key pieces of advice that we were given during cross-cultural training, was to “enter our new culture as a learner” — and stay that way. The significance of this approach really hit home when we began to understand how the values of Uruguayans differ from our own values in almost all areas including honesty (truth), respect for the law, authority, life and possessions, what the future holds, quality, discipline, privacy, efficiency, comfort, courtesy etc. We think that their primary and highest values include relationships, family and sports.
Our transition
As we think back about our transition to the mission field, many things come to our minds…moving, moving and moving again…learning everything new…cultural differences and language difficulties… but our biggest challenges have been on a personal level.
From the very beginning, this has been a faith-building process. That is especially true because for much of the time, we have not known how God was working, only that He was. Our “need” to understand everything and to know all the details in advance was challenged continually. One of our friends told us, “it’s much easier to sing “’I surrender all’ than it is to do it.” It’s also easier to say that we “live by faith and not by sight” than to actually walk that way. Honestly, for us, the most difficult thing continues to be “the stripping away” of all that we have come to depend upon other than God in our lives. We had no idea how self-reliant we were, or how dependent we were on other things and other people. The Lord has been patiently teaching us to yield to Him, His ways, His timing and His will and rely upon Who we know – He who is Faithful and True – rather than what we know. We’ve learned so much.
Our first cross-cultural transition was from the U.S. to Costa Rica, for a year of Spanish language school. Within days of arriving, our feelings of adequacy and self-confidence in who we were and what we knew (and were able to do), were shaken (badly), as we were unable to communicate even the most basic of things. We were reduced to grunts, groans, hand signals and pointing! We couldn’t even carry on a conversation on the phone! For us, language school was one “one gigantic humbling experience” (which truly was a very good thing). The Lord taught us much there.
Our transition to Uruguay was much more difficult, as we arrived in the middle of winter. Our first moment of culture shock occurred when we realized that we could understand almost nothing that was being said to us. Our Mission Directors were here to help us for the first week, but then they left, and we were here by ourselves. Right away, the believers in our church (who knew the right people and businesses to contact) helped us get established. They were patient and kind to us, and it was during this time that our relationships with them began to develop. We’ve learned that everything here takes longer, is harder, has to be done by hand, from scratch, and the results are usually different than we expect. But they are not bad, just different. In this process, God has helped us set aside our agendas, schedules, and priorities and adapt so we can function well here.
One of our greatest challenges has been our residency process, which has been very complicated. We think we’re nearing the end now, and hope to have our cedulas (National Identity Documents) in hand by the end of March.
In August this past year, we left a world in which…
- Young children were securely strapped into car seats, and those who couldn’t swim, wore life jackets.
- Our really sharp kitchen knives had protective covers (sheaths) on them.
- Electricity and water were never mixed together.
- Every day, we reviewed our day planners to see what we’d scheduled days and weeks in advance.
To come to a world in which…
- Young children (& babies) are carried in the arms of their mothers on the backs of motorcycles… without helmets. Or they stand up in the front seats of cars.
- Cheese samples from the local vendors are served to us on the pointy end of a 20” long machete.
- A shower head (that heats water passing through it) is hooked up to electricity and water….hmm…they call these “widow makers” for a good reason. We’ve been advised to avoid the urge to put the hose back on if it should come loose.
- We commonly receive text messages inviting us to a birthday party and other important events - 3 hours before it begins.
As the only American couple living here, and working in the churches in Florida, Uruguay, we have many challenges. Misunderstandings with Uruguayans are common (on both sides). But we work them out. God has given us love and compassion for them, and we are so grateful that He sent us here.
Life is a challenge…walk by faith in the God who created us and who gives us the grace to follow Him every day.
Prayer Requests
For the month of March, please pray:
- That the hearts of Uruguayan believers would be filled with passion for the Word of God and that they would long for Him, as the Psalmist said in Psalm 42… As a deer pants for the water, so my soul longs for you, O God.
- That the Gospel of Jesus Christ would become central in their lives; that their hearts would be filled with compassion for those who are lost, and would reach out to them with the Truth of God.
- That God will grant us the grace and wisdom to come alongside the leaders of these churches, to encourage & strengthen them.
- That the government of Uruguay would grant us permanent residency.